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Originally Posted by Otter
But probably you identify as one gender or the other? And if you do, then this colours your behavior and responses to other people (and even if you don't, the gender you're 'read' as by other people colours their reactions to you). It's easy to be unaware of it; it's as ubiquitous and as invisible in our society as air, and often not examined.
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Well, I am aware of it, but that wasn't really my point. My point was, it has little relevance in my life. How would my relation to other people change if they (and myself) perceived me as a female? My behavior would be different, somewhat, but not all that different, I imagine.
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Originally Posted by Otter
Lately I'm somewhat fascinated by gender, and the effect that it has on our relationships. Probaly has someting to do with my longest term friend and lover (and 1st girlfriend) having transitioned to male recently.
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So. Any pertinent change in that relationship? Pertinent to my question, I mean.