you are new man.I think you are good at cooking.r u usually do housework?we Chinese call this kind of man "pattern husband",Haha.you seems the only one "pattern husband" in western world.
if your wife insists want to work,how do you stay with her?

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For one thing, this is the sort of thing people need to talk about before they get married. Of course, peoples ideas about what they want from life do change, so another key is to be able to talk with each other openly, and be flexable, so that everyone can have their needs met. Staying at home can be boring as hell, especially for an intelligent woman (or man). It is also pretty unplesant to feel totally financially dependant on someone else, which is made worse if they make all the decisions about money. Figure out what needs to be done, as far as taking care of the house, finances, and children, if any and divide it up in a way that is satsfactory to both.

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It would ultimately be her decision. Of course, the option of me staying at home is open if she makes enough money.

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Ugh. I've done it- I thought my brain was going to tun into oatmeal. Of course, we were pretty poor then. it might be more fun with actual money.

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