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Re: Cultural tolerance? I think not.

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Sixteen year-old Aqsa Parvez was strangled to death by her father, Muhammed (assisted by her brother, Waqas) in Ontario. She had the audacity to not want to wear the hijab. Here is this young victim, killed by her own family:



Some press outlets in Canada have called this a “domestic dispute”. Although somewhat accurate, it diminishes the nature of the crime, IMO.

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Amina Yaser Said, 18, and her younger sister, Sarah Yaser Said, 16, were murdered by their father in Texas because they wore western clothes. Here are the victims of that crime:



Here is a picture of that small, small man who murdered his two daughters:



How's that "honor" working our for you, Yaser Abdel?

At least the brother of these two girls is pleading for his father to turn himself in, so that is one male family member who is not a complete POS.

And, here is what the National Organization of Women has to say about these crimes:


















(nothing) Why is this political organization silent about this? Are conservative women who care about the feminist movement to be ignored and have no representation from this powerful organization? It sure seems that way to me, or NOW’s agenda is not really what they claim it is? “Cultural tolerance” may be more important to NOW.

Dad appears to be wearing western clothes himself.
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FWIW Matt - what do you think of Buddhist communities where a girl who is 'damaged goods' is beaten to a pulp and then put out on the streets - usually working as a prostitute
What do you think I think of that?



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Dad appears to be wearing western clothes himself.
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My two cents:

The islamophobic media would take any opportunity to tarnish the image of Islam, even if the story has nothing to do with Islam. Lets shed some light.

The issue here is called Honour Killings, whic are known to be cultural and have no basis in any religion. But they refer to the girl killed in their articles as " A MUSLIM girl has been killed...."

Few points to raise:

-Does the girl’s religion matter in this horrific story? Did it play a role?
-Would the writers have started the article with “A CHRISTIAN girl…….”, “A JEWISH girl…..” if the girl had a different faith and;...
[Emphasis mine] Yup, they would have, thus you haven't a point.

If anyone recalls Ruby Ridge and Waco, they will also recall many references to Christianity.

Move along. Brushing it off as "Islamophobia" is inadequate.
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Re: Cultural tolerance? I think not.

I'm still not exactly sure what Islam has to do with this, either.

Men kill women all the time, for a large variety of terrible reasons. Whether it be religious, sexism, robbery, rape, etc. I don't see the necessity in singling out a particular group (Muslim) to focus on, when their crimes aren't any more terrible than the other murders. Murder is murder is murder, whether it's done by a Muslim, a Jew, a blond, a white person, a kid, whatever.

Due to the rather large Muslim population in the US and the rather small occurrence of these 'honor killings', it's obviously not indicative of a widely accepted religious policy.

So, what's the reasoning? Would I get as much concern and reaction out of a thread detailing how blond haired men engage in terrible crimes against women?

I'm not attempting to downplay the awfulness of these crimes. I'm just saying I have a suspicion that when a single group of people are singled out for doing something terrible that lots of other groups do as well, it seems like there's an agenda at play....
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I'm still not exactly sure what Islam has to do with this, either.

Men kill women all the time, for a large variety of terrible reasons. Whether it be religious, sexism, robbery, rape, etc. I don't see the necessity in singling out a particular group (Muslim) to focus on, when their crimes aren't any more terrible than the other murders. Murder is murder is murder, whether it's done by a Muslim, a Jew, a blond, a white person, a kid, whatever.

Due to the rather large Muslim population in the US and the rather small occurrence of these 'honor killings', it's obviously not indicative of a widely accepted religious policy.

So, what's the reasoning? Would I get as much concern and reaction out of a thread detailing how blond haired men engage in terrible crimes against women?

I'm not attempting to downplay the awfulness of these crimes. I'm just saying I have a suspicion that when a single group of people are singled out for doing something terrible that lots of other groups do as well, it seems like there's an agenda at play....
The difference is, the reasons/motives for killing a woman AND the fact that the woman is often a family member. For these perversions, it most often happens with Muslims. That's the connection - motive and family as the victim.
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Its very easy to look at Islam and misogyny - however in my experience Islam is no more (nor less) misogynist than any other patriarchal religion. And when one looks at Hinduism it fares far worse than Islam ... and I have seen more open violence against women in a Buddhist society than I ever have in a Muslim society.

If I were a white christian woman living 150 years ago, and I read the Quran, (and that was my only contact with Islam) I would wish that I had been born Muslim - because my rights as a woman would have been far better than my rights under Victorian English Law - where my husband would be justified in beating me if I didn't feel like having sex.

Fortunately for women in western democracies, things have moved on. We now have more rights than women in most other societies ... although interestingly some men are not happy with this.

If people are seriously interested in the welfare of women around the globe - or in their own society - singling out cases of Muslim family violence won't solve the problem.

In my experience this argument is usually presented - not by those who are interested in women's rights, or preventing women from being murdered by family members - but by thosw who wish to bash Muslims.
Exactly!!

Straight away I knew that its another bash at Muslims and most of them dont understand Honour Killings. If you are from the UK you would be more knowledgeable about it since they are introducing laws and the media gave it alot of attention.

I already wrote about Women Rights in Islam in a number of posts, in comparison with how women were treated in the Dark Ages and Medieval Europe. There was a long program in British TV on Moorish Spain and what the Moors (Muslims of Andalusia) brought to Europe. The Muslim woman had the right to inherit property way before the European woman.

These are the rights of women that Islam protected and upheld:

1. The right and duty to obtain education.

2. The right to have their own independent property.

3. The right to work to earn money if they need it or want it.

4. Equality of reward for equal deeds.

5. The right to express their opinion and be heard.

6. The right to provisions from the husband for all her needs and more.

7. The right to negotiate marriage terms of her choice.

8. The right to obtain divorce from her husband, even on the grounds that she simply can't stand him. (pls note that God deeply frowns upon divorce as a solution unless there is hardly any other alternative but it does not mean that men have more right to divorce their wives than women do.)

9. The right to keep all her own money (she is not responsible to maintain any relations).

10. The right to get sexual satisfaction from her husband.

11. custody of their children after divorce.

12. to refuse any marriage that does not please them

and more...


And when did the western woman get her rights? Infact till today she is still fighting for her rights. And the West continues to humiliates her and degrade her... it made a whole industry out of humiliating her (the porn industry) .... prositution is openly acceptable where as in Muslim countries the government pays her financial needs until she is able to support herself. The rapist is killed in Islam and the raped woman gets full protection of the law... in the west he gets a prison sentence. Also, see how the big corporations and businesses use and abuse women for monetary gains, every single advert must have a woman, semi nakid, holdin a product etc.

There are many examples, the film industry and how she has to sleep with 10,000 directors before she gets a role in a movie and in the movie she still has to sleep with a few actors. They call it art, friggin degrading. The fashion industry, jeez, the clothes seem to cover alot less these days... ah yeah... the designers all happen to be MEN. .. Yves Saint Lauran, Gucci, Paul Smith, Georgio Armani, Ralph Lauren, ... etc... and those poor models are killing themselves with anorexia to get a friggin job.

What about in the work place. Till today, women in the UK (I know this for a fact cos am from there) the women still fightin for the right to be paid the same as their male colleagues for doing the same jobs.

The islamophobic media concentrates on the tiny minority who indulge in corrupt cultural practices and call it Islam.

Islam came and gave the woman status and rights, it protects her honour and wrapped her with dignity and respect.

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The difference is, the reasons/motives for killing a woman AND the fact that the woman is often a family member. For these perversions, it most often happens with Muslims. That's the connection - motive and family as the victim.
Okay, so are they more important than honor killings carried out by Hindus, Christians, Buddhists and others?

Obviously they're not. And I haven't seen any information to show that Muslims are more likely to carry this out than other groups (which they very well could, I don't know).

Before it was outlawed in 1991, over 800 women were killed by their husbands or fathers every year in Brazil (source). Brazil is obviously not a Muslim country. My point in bringing this up is that if we narrow our focus solely on Muslim Honor Killings, is that you'll completely miss all the other honor killings that go on around the world.

And they do occur. I just did a google news search for 'honor killings' and found mention of it happening among Christian communities in Africa, Buddhist communities in the UK and Hindu communities in the US.
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Okay, so are they more important than honor killings carried out by Hindus, Christians, Buddhists and others?

Obviously they're not. And I haven't seen any information to show that Muslims are more likely to carry this out than other groups (which they very well could, I don't know).

Before it was outlawed in 1991, over 800 women were killed by their husbands or fathers every year in Brazil (source). Brazil is obviously not a Muslim country. My point in bringing this up is that if we narrow our focus solely on Muslim Honor Killings, is that you'll completely miss all the other honor killings that go on around the world.

And they do occur. I just did a google news search for 'honor killings' and found mention of it happening among Christian communities in Africa, Buddhist communities in the UK and Hindu communities in the US.
Yup. And my cultural tolerance does not go that far. For the honor killings that happen in this hemisphere, I haven't heard many that are not by Muslims. And, if a fundie Hindu or a fundie Christian family did this here, I would fully expect to hear the press mention religion. And, I would fully expect NOW to address it rather than remain silent on it.
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OK, here's the dollar-fifty question...................Do anyone know of any other culture where people engage in "honor killings"? ( other than murderous middle eastern culture)
Yeps. Southern Italy Camorra country. Very religious but not Islamic. Hint, hint.

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Re: Cultural tolerance? I think not.

And as I continue to feel out my position on this topic...

How do people feel about the many majority Muslim countries that have laws pardoning husbands and fathers from murdering their wives and daughters in honor killings? It's certainly not a widely accepted practice, from what I understand, but countries do exempt people from punishment for this type of crime, which certainly doesn't do much to discourage it.
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I'm still not exactly sure what Islam has to do with this, either.

Men kill women all the time, for a large variety of terrible reasons. Whether it be religious, sexism, robbery, rape, etc. I don't see the necessity in singling out a particular group (Muslim) to focus on, when their crimes aren't any more terrible than the other murders. Murder is murder is murder, whether it's done by a Muslim, a Jew, a blond, a white person, a kid, whatever.

Due to the rather large Muslim population in the US and the rather small occurrence of these 'honor killings', it's obviously not indicative of a widely accepted religious policy.

So, what's the reasoning? Would I get as much concern and reaction out of a thread detailing how blond haired men engage in terrible crimes against women?

I'm not attempting to downplay the awfulness of these crimes. I'm just saying I have a suspicion that when a single group of people are singled out for doing something terrible that lots of other groups do as well, it seems like there's an agenda at play....
Another thing I do not get is that the same people that want to point out that this may have involved Islam and want to make sure that it is the focus is situations like this rather than treating it as just plain murder tend to be strongly opposed to the idea of hate crimes and argue that murder should be treated as murder regardless of motivations and that the thoughts, politics, beliefs, and bigotry should be left out of it. If a racist murder should be treated as any other murder then a religious murder should be treated as such. I do not see these same people starting threads on a regular basis every time a homosexual or person in a minority is killed. I saw a report recently about how hate crimes against Mexicans has gone way up since immigration has been focused on more in the last few years but that isn't really an issue that conservatives ever talk about. As somebody that lives in a college town with a pretty good number of Muslim college students that came to the U.S. to study I only wish that the local white Christian Fraternity and Sorority students behaved half as good as the Muslim students.
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And as I continue to feel out my position on this topic...

How do people feel about the many majority Muslim countries that have laws pardoning husbands and fathers from murdering their wives and daughters in honor killings? It's certainly not a widely accepted practice, from what I understand, but countries do exempt people from punishment for this type of crime, which certainly doesn't do much to discourage it.
I feel disgusted by the possibly of a pardon based on this motive for murder. Disgusted.
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Another thing I do not get is that the same people that want to point out that this may have involved Islam and want to make sure that it is the focus is situations like this rather than treating it as just plain murder tend to be strongly opposed to the idea of hate crimes and argue that murder should be treated as murder regardless of motivations and that the thoughts, politics, beliefs, and bigotry should be left out of it. If a racist murder should be treated as any other murder then a religious murder should be treated as such. I do not see these same people starting threads on a regular basis every time a homosexual or person in a minority is killed. I saw a report recently about how hate crimes against Mexicans has gone way up since immigration has been focused on more in the last few years but that isn't really an issue that conservatives ever talk about. As somebody that lives in a college town with a pretty good number of Muslim college students that came to the U.S. to study I only wish that the local white Christian Fraternity and Sorority students behaved half as good as the Muslim students.
Very good point, I hadn't thought of that. I guess there is a bit of hypocrisy in demanding that hate crimes be done away with, but then complaining when religious crimes aren't singled out.
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I feel disgusted by the possibly of a pardon based on this motive for murder. Disgusted.
Yea, I figured you would.

I was more pointing it towards the people on the other side of the argument.

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Jordan: Part of article 340 of the Penal Code states that "he who discovers his wife or one of his female relatives committing adultery and kills, wounds, or injures one of them, is exempted from any penalty." This has twice been put forward for cancellation by the government, but was retained by the Lower House of the Parliament.
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Syria: Article 548 states that "He who catches his wife or one of his ascendants, descendants or sister committing adultery (flagrante delicto) or illegitimate sexual acts with another and he killed or injured one or both of them benefits from an exemption of penalty."
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Morocco: Article 418 of the Penal Code states "Murder, injury and beating are excusable if they are committed by a husband on his wife as well as the accomplice at the moment in which he surprises them in the act of adultery."
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