I guess because I've been in my town for 50 years, I've been able to observe the changes that have taken place. The town has always been a "bedroom community" of New Orleans, a place where people moved to because it was family oriented, crime was minimal, etc. Everyone knew everyone either from school or church and we took great pride in the "purity" of the community. When video poker came along, we quickly voted it out, not because we were "church" people but because with casinos and poker places comes things like pawn shops and considering what happened to Gulfport's and Biloxi's main strips, we really did want to have that here. Of course, the businesses that had poker machines in them were pissed, claiming that churches forced them out of business when in truth, it was just the people of the community who voted to remain family friendly.
In this same community, there were holiday greetings of all kinds, including "Happy Holidays", "Season's Greetings" and "Merry Christmas" but the point is that "Merry Christmas" is no longer written on shop windows for the fear of offending someone. Part of it, I blame on the parenting of today...kids don't learn how to handle being chosen last for the softball game, if one gets a Valentine's Day card in their little bag, they all have to get one, birthday party invitations can't be passed out at school because if a kid isn't invited, his feeling will be hurt....in other words, we raising a bunch of social wimps. I grew up in a time when it was "put your big girl panties on and deal with it" and we should go back to that instead of being offended by every little thing.
As for prayer in school, I don't think it's such a big deal either way but I see no reason to feel uncomfortable if one is not religious. Does it really hurt to sit quietly for a minute or two out of respect for others who do pray? I've attended Catholic services before and being raised in the Baptist faith, I disagree with much of the Catholic religion. I wasn't offended during their "prayers" which were nothing more than repeating Psalms 23 (I believe in praying from the heart, not reciting "God is great, God is good..."). Nothing they did "offended" me because I respect that they were following their beliefs so when it came to all the kneeling they do, I sat quietly in my seat and let them do their thing. I also don't believe in calling a priest "Father" but rather than show disrespect, I just don't address him by any name even though I dealt with them in nursing for years. I learned at a young age that one can be offended by the little things only if one allows himself to be.

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