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OK, now ask youself this.........if the requested apology was rendered, could we expect a measurable white/black relations improvement as a result of the suggested idiocy?
For once we agree. Why an apology might sound nice it would do nothing for people suffering from the continued realities of racial oppression in this nation.
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For once we agree. Why an apology might sound nice it would do nothing for people suffering from the continued realities of racial oppression in this nation.
Hey, that's a first!
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I think it's not coincidental that you see middle class successful african americans calling for this, people who live in the ghetto or are dirt poor simple don't have time for these kinds of silly academic discussions about apologiess. It's frustrating.
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I think you're right: apologizing costs you something. That's the only reason why it means anything.
Apologizing means not just saying "That was bad; I wish it didn't happen." If that was all it was then we'd be apologizing for hurricanes and tornados.
Apologizing means "What I did was bad; I'm sorry I did that."
"I'm sorry" can express pity, sympathy, compassion, and empathy as well.

It's an admission of guilt and regret. An admission of responsibility. That's why it means something, it lets both the offended and the offender accept the part they played in the offense.

But because of that, it isn't right to ask for an apology from someone who was not involved in the offense. That's why people are unhappy with it: asking for a meaningless apology cheapens all apologies, even the ones that actually mean something. I'm sorry that you are so unhappy with this, but the only meaningless apology is the one given but not meant. Any honest apology has meaning. I truly am sorry for you (expression of pity) because of the pain and anger (expression of sympathy and empathy) that my position has engendered in you. It is sad if you really believe that giving a simple apology as an expression of sympathy, empathy, pity, and compassion will tax you beyond your ability to give.

Who precisely are you asking empathy for?
All those who have suffered. And who has not?
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OK, now ask youself this.........if the requested apology was rendered, could we expect a measurable white/black relations improvement as a result of the suggested idiocy?
An apology is a gift, not a quid pro quo. Will NOT rendering the requested apology produce a measurable white/black relations improvement?

The fact that you have to call an expression of sympathy/empathy/compassion/pity "suggested idiocy" says a great deal.
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An excellent start, thank you. But it's not about money, it's about forgiveness. I forgive you and all the other people who have hurt me down through the years. In turn I would ask for the forgiveness of all the people I have hurt or who were hurt by my forebears, I promise to do my best not to repeat their mistakes. Today everyone on Earth starts with a clean slate in my eyes--even Kinetic.

An eye for an eye and soon the whole world is blind. Forgiveness has to start somewhere, why not here and now? Rotten has asked for forgiveness and I have given mine to him, I have asked for everyone's forgiveness and I have extended mine to everyone. A genuine apology is a gift that costs nothing.
As for me, I apologize for nothing. If I stepped on your toes, it was probably your fault, as you shouldn't have had YOUR damn foot in MY way.

Also, I agree, why apologize for stuff with which no one alive played a role? I don't get it. . .
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An apology is a gift, not a quid pro quo. Will NOT rendering the requested apology produce a measurable white/black relations improvement?

The fact that you have to call an expression of sympathy/empathy/compassion/pity "suggested idiocy" says a great deal.
Spit in the ocean my friend. If you think this would bring about measurable change, I have a sweetheart of a real estate deal for you!
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What's wrong with apologizing? What have you got to lose? Are you proud that your ancestors owned slaves? Be careful Mrs M. Your bigotry is showing again.
I don't think it's anything to do with bigotry Sam. Here in Australia we have been facing a similar situation for many years now with a call to apologise to the Aboriginal population for the "stolen children". (As an aside, for those who aren't aware, in the early to mid-20th century, the Australian govt had a belief that Aboriginals weren't capable of raising their children, so an official policy was enacted that the state would take all the children of Aboriginals and raise them in white households - it's known as the stolen generation). There have been cried for apologies for many years, including mass public demonstrations by the white population supporting such a move, however John Howard (our, eeek, illustrious Prime Minister) refuses to do so on the grounds that making an apology opens the way for massive compensation claims to the government. I'm assuming that something similar would be at work here.
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As for me, I apologize for nothing. If I stepped on your toes, it was probably your fault, as you shouldn't have had YOUR damn foot in MY way.

Also, I agree, why apologize for stuff with which no one alive played a role? I don't get it. . .
The important thing is to look out for number one, walk on the backs of others to gain what you want, do unto others, might is right, a person deserves everything they can get, competition is the highest good, preying on each other is the natural order of things, compassion is for sissies, real men don't apologize, kill or be killed.

That is the prescription for the insane society in which we live, I think it's stupid, every Avatar in human history has disagreed with every statement in the above paragraph. Only cowards have to live that way, it takes great courage to be compassionate and forgiving. I don't know how to explain it any more clearly than I already have, if you can't understand, then you can't.
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I don't think it's anything to do with bigotry Sam. Here in Australia we have been facing a similar situation for many years now with a call to apologise to the Aboriginal population for the "stolen children". (As an aside, for those who aren't aware, in the early to mid-20th century, the Australian govt had a belief that Aboriginals weren't capable of raising their children, so an official policy was enacted that the state would take all the children of Aboriginals and raise them in white households - it's known as the stolen generation). There have been cried for apologies for many years, including mass public demonstrations by the white population supporting such a move, however John Howard (our, eeek, illustrious Prime Minister) refuses to do so on the grounds that making an apology opens the way for massive compensation claims to the government. I'm assuming that something similar would be at work here.
I saw the movie that was made about that. Big time tear jerker that one. I think bigotry made it happen and bigotry stops the apology. Just my opinion. If white people really respected the Aboriginal people or the African American people, they would not have done what they did. And if the respect appeared after the fact, they would issue a huge apology, without hesitation. I think respect is lacking and I think that is due to bigotry.
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Spit in the ocean my friend. If you think this would bring about measurable change, I have a sweetheart of a real estate deal for you!
Watch the movie I recommended please, IN MY COUNTRY, then come back and talk to me. Forgiveness can be an incredibly powerful force. What is the message of Jesus but forgiveness?
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I saw the movie that was made about that. Big time tear jerker that one. I think bigotry made it happen and bigotry stops the apology. Just my opinion. If white people really respected the Aboriginal people or the African American people, they would not have done what they did. And if the respect appeared after the fact, they would issue a huge apology, without hesitation. I think respect is lacking and I think that is due to bigotry.
Absolutely agree! Respect, or lack thereof, is inherently at the core of racism - or any form of discrimination for that matter, as it is a lack of respect for a fellow human. I personally don't see anything wrong with saying "I'm sorry", especially if it helps with the "moving on" process. But it is also just as wrong to live in the past, and the inability of our respective government to apologise, or some the recipients of the intended apology to move on unfortunately means that for the moment at least, we will be stuck in the past, unable to look towards the future (how prophetic of me ).
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I don't think it's anything to do with bigotry Sam. Here in Australia we have been facing a similar situation for many years now with a call to apologise to the Aboriginal population for the "stolen children". (As an aside, for those who aren't aware, in the early to mid-20th century, the Australian govt had a belief that Aboriginals weren't capable of raising their children, so an official policy was enacted that the state would take all the children of Aboriginals and raise them in white households - it's known as the stolen generation). There have been cried for apologies for many years, including mass public demonstrations by the white population supporting such a move, however John Howard (our, eeek, illustrious Prime Minister) refuses to do so on the grounds that making an apology opens the way for massive compensation claims to the government. I'm assuming that something similar would be at work here.
So once again it's all about money, the god we worship: MONEY. Is that all this is about? All the long-winded arguments about guilt and responsibility belonging to dead people, but really it's all about money.
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